What Next?

Yes, what next? Now that I've got my blog up and running, what next? What is it that I've got to say that might interest anyone? Honestly, I don't know. All I know is, I'm here to share my mind, my views, my opinions, my feelings e.t.c..

It's not easy being chubby in a world that idolizes all things superficial. Discrimination is everywhere! Hell, I can't even go into a clothing store and buy clothes that I like. Nothing fits! What's that all about? Only skinny girls get to wear clothes and big girls like us should walk around naked? It's really silly. Why can't retailers carry plus sizes? Will they die if they carry beyond a size L?

And please oh puh-leeeeeze do NOT get me started about the sizing in this country... Even the XL is tiny! What's up with that? I have a friend who wears a size L here in Malaysia who went over to the US and was shocked to find out that she fits into a size S! Can you imagine? It really is sad. I would love to be able to walk into a store and pick out whatever I wanted just like any other girls.

Has anyone noticed the total lack of plus size stores in Malaysia? I mean, where are we supposed to go buy clothes? Not everyone could afford to travel overseas to shop. The few plus size stores that DO exist here mostly caters to the OLDER demographic.. Are they trying to tell us that just because we're plus sized we should dress like our grandmothers?? Hell, even MY grandmother wears jeans.

I am proud to say that I'm one big gal who does NOT conform to how society think I should dress.. I wear what I want, whenever I want. I'm lucky in the sense that i occasionally could travel out of Malaysia and stock up on clothes but it gets really frustrating because I can't exactly travel JUST to go get new clothes now can I? Money doesn't grow on trees after all.

Now let's talk about boys. Don't you just hate it that we big gals have a hard time getting boyfriends just because of our size? It's ridiculous! That's the problem with our society.. They always equate our larger bodies to ugliness. What happened to our personality? Our intelligence? Our good heart? Is that not more important? Besides, who said big girls are ugly? I personally know A LOT of big babes who are drop dead gorgeous with a beautiful personality to boot and because of our extra 'padding' we feel DAMN GOOD to hold too! Not to mention we would also age more gracefully than our smaller counterparts! Our extra fat makes sure of that. Woohoo!

I've had my fair share of guys who would reject me by saying being my size is unhealthy and they do not want to be with unhealthy people. That's bullshit! My health is perfect. I'm NOT saying that all big girls have perfect health, but then again not ALL skinny people have perfect health either. That's just how life is... I personally do not waste my time with shallow superficial guys. If they want to be with skinny girls then go right ahead. It's their own personal taste and choice... Just PLEASE do not put me down!

Well, enough with the depressing stuff. There's no point whining about how unfair the world is and how people should be accepting of us. What WE can do is, accept ourselves for who and what we are.. We NEED to love ourselves first before anyone could learn to love us. So girls... start embracing your chubbiness and love yourselves.. There's nothing sexier than a lady who's comfortable in her own skin.